3 day LIVE event of the Owner's Manual process by life coach and positive psychology practitioner, Kira Sabin.
Does this sound like you?
YOU’VE BEEN DOWN EVERY DATING ROAD THERE IS:
Match, Tinder, OKCupid…eHarmony, even! (gah!)
You’ve been to bars and meetups.
You’ve been set up by your best friend, your boss, and your Great Aunt Mary’s friend, Edna.
You’ve met some guys, but nothing seems to stick, and you just can’t seem to find that special someone, or feel that special feeling…and every time you do, it all goes to shit.
YOU BASICALLY FEEL LIKE YOU’RE IN GROUNDHOG DAY RELIVING THE SAME DATE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
And it’s not like you’re not awesome, you are! You have your shit together most days; you’re a good friend, you have a good job, and you clean up well. In fact, now that you think about it, you have a lot to offer a relationship, so why the hell can’t you meet “the one” like everyone else on the planet?
Right?
And most days you feel ok with being single. Happy, even. You hunker down with your wine and binge watch a few episodes of your favorite show. “This is cool,” you think, “Who needs a man when I have Netflix and a pint of Ben and Jerry’s Half Baked? And wine.”
But then the feelings start to bubble up (you know… the feelings…). And that old familiar voice starts up in your head…
Why does everyone else have their “person”?
Is there something wrong with me?
Why is no one outside my window with a boombox?
Where the fuck is the love of my life?!?
HEY SUGARPANTS, I’M KIRA SABIN, POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY PRACTITIONER & LIFE COACH FOR SINGLES, AND BOY DO I GET IT.
I’VE SPENT THE LAST 10 YEARS STUDYING LOVE, DATING + RELATIONSHIPS FROM EVERY ANGLE AND COACHING WOMEN JUST LIKE YOU AND HERE IS WHAT I KNOW BEYOND A SHADOW OF A DOUBT:
IT’S NOT YOU.
IT HAS TO DO WITH THE FACT THAT YOU GREW UP IN A CULTURE THAT VALUES FANTASY OVER REALITY, QUICK–FIXES OVER DEEP WORK, AND HAPPILY–EVER–AFTERS OVER THE TRUTH OF WHAT IT MEANS TO BE IN A LONG–TERM RELATIONSHIP.
LET’S BE HONEST.
You learned most of what you know about love and relationships from rom-coms and Disney princesses, amiright?
And they didn’t exactly teach you the relationship skills vital to finding and keeping true love, such as:
- HOW TO COMMUNICATE AND BUILD TRUST
- HOW TO SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES WITHOUT CUTTING PEOPLE OFF
- HOW TO BE REAL WHILE MAINTAINING YOUR CONFIDENCE
- HOW TO UNDERSTAND YOUR OWN OPERATING SYSTEM IN SUCH A WAY THAT YOU’RE ABLE TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU NEED...AND GET IT.
So listen up, Hot Pants!
It’s not your fault that you never learned these things! This isn’t the stuff they teach in school (although they damn well should!), and almost no one I’ve worked with in the last 10 years knows any of this stuff.
AND YET, THIS IS THE WORK THAT EVERY SINGLE PERSON NEEDS TO DO IN ORDER TO BUILD THE STUNNING, HEALTHY, HAPPY PARTNERSHIP THEY TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY WANT.
The kind of relationship that makes them feel cared for, supported, valued, heard, and really loved, over a long period of time.
So if you can’t learn this in school, and Nicholas Sparks is full of shit, where the hell can you learn this stuff??
The Owner's Manual, of course!
**Cue the choir of angels, kittens, trumpets & confetti toss!**
Led by positive psychology practitioner and life coach Kira Sabin, THE OWNER’S MANUAL is an engaging and life-changing process for single women who want to learn HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT PERSON, get more DEEPLY CONNECTED, and BUILD THE RELATIONSHIP OF THEIR DREAMS!
I took my process and turned it into a LIVE three day event to really dig into...
- How you learned to love and if it is helping or hurting your relationship.
- How to ask for what you need in a relationship.
- How to up your self worth to feel more confident when dating.
- Why you’re attracting emotionally unavailable people and how to stop.
- What emotional and physical availability really looks like and how to spot it early in a dating relationship.
- How to truly start connecting with people and creating deeper relationships.
The OM Live is a three day workshop with a community of other incredible single women working on their best selves. We will not be in our seats the whole time zoning out while I drone on for hours. :) We’ll be sharing, interacting, and laughing with a group of new best friends from around the country.
You will be surrounding yourself with incredible women from around the world who are doing this work with you! There is nothing better than being with a group of incredible women, sharing, connecting, hugging, learning, and changing your life!
Schedule for weekend:
Friday September 28th, 2018
9:30 am – Check-in. Meet the other ladies, and get settled in for day 1.
Friday Morning: Intros and connection.
For this to really work, we need to get to know each other well. We will share stories, struggles and where we are feeling stuck. There will be lots of hugs and of course, Prizes for Cryzes!
Lunch
Friday Afternoon: Self Worth
We are digging in to how and why we don't feel worthy and how to speak to our inner critic in a way that it actually fucking listens!
Dinner and Free Time! Grab a new friend or two and eat out on your own! Or order in Giordanos, the best Chicago Deep Dish pizza ANYWHERE!
Saturday, September 29th
Saturday Morning: Self Compassion Training
If our self worth game is off, we heal through self compassion. We are going to spend the morning practicing self compassion and how to add it to our daily routine to feel strong, empowered and worthy!
Lunch
Saturday Afternoon: Boundaries & Tough Conversations
We will kick off today understanding and practicing boundaries and tough conversations. You will learn scripts to use with dates, co-workers and even family! You will walk away understanding and able to apply boundaries on a daily basis.
Dinner and Free Time! Grab a new friend or two and eat out on your own! Or order in Giordanos, the best Chicago Deep Dish pizza ANYWHERE!
Sunday, September 30th
Sunday Morning & Afternoon: Emotional Availability & Vulnerability FTW!
Emotional availability: what it really means and how to detect it. Do you keep hitting dead ends with guys? Do you think it’ll work and they end up ghosting, checking out, or just not being able to commit? There are ways to detect it and prevent it!
Vulnerability: How to really connect with dates and create relationships that work. We are going to be figuring out (and practicing) how to have better dates, build deeper connections, and date with confidence and ease.
Sounds awesome. Right?
After this weekend, you’ll walk away knowing...
What to do after a rejection and be able to bounce back easily.
Daily self compassion practice for building self worth and feeling fucking amazing!
How to be able to detect if someone is emotionally unavailable and effective strategies for walking away if they’re not.
How to watch yourself for self-sabotage and be able to stop yourself.
Scripts for letting someone know you are or you're not interested.
How to be more available to be approached more often.
How to create deeper connections with everyone in your life, especially men.
Your ticket includes:
3 days of downright dating genius.
A Facebook group that will open Sept 1st so you’ll have a chance to to meet the other ladies, and find a roommate if you need to.
Fun surprises and giveaways at the event.
The chance to meet other incredible single women who get what you are going through.
Not included:
Travel to and from Chicago
Hotel stay
Meals and beverages
FAQs
Is there a minimum age requirement to enter the event?
You need to be at least 21 to attend this event.
How can I contact the organizer with any questions?
You can reach out to Kira with any questions at [email protected]
What's the refund policy?
There are no refunds, but if you find you can't make it after you've purchased your ticket, you can apply your ticket price to another event, class, or private session.
Are men allowed to come?
Nope. Ladies only.
Is this really THAT amazing?
It totally fucking is, Sugarpants! But it is also what you put into it!
Who is excited?
